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Friday, June 26, 2009

hello .
faith here{again?!}
another consequence of having BGR , is that if that person is not the right one for you ,
we'll have broken relationships .
Here are 3 dont's after a broken relationship .

Don't Blame the others. Why? Because when you start blaming the others, you will not be able to look into yourself and learn your mistakes. Can you look at yourself when you are staring at another person? Recognise the other's fault and also your own fault. It cannot be no fault in you. It is only that you haven't recognise your fault.

Don't Blame yourself. Why? Because we are all imperfect. Blaming yourself will not help. But learning more about ourselves and work towards to be a better person will. Remember, no one can change you unless you change yourself. Then when your next relationship comes along, it will be more successful because you are a better person to handle the new relationship. Don't do stupid things to harm yourself or give up on yourself. Why? Because you have already lost a relationship, why do you still want to lose yourself?

Don't Go straight into a new relationship after your previous relationship because of loneliness. Why? Because the result of the new relationship could also ended up broken. Why? Because you have not overcome the independence needed in a boy-girl relationship. You may feel the emptiness after a broken relationship and wanted to look for someone to fill up the "hole". You should be looking for a partner, soul mate or companionship…… not a loneliness "filler". In all relationship, there is always some loneliness that we have to handle. If you cannot handle now, then your next relationship may still get into trouble because you cannot handle loneliness. Take your time and look around. Relationship is quite unforeseeable. When it comes, you would not be able to avoid it. When you are looking for it, it just won't come……just take it naturally.

I understand that after a broke off, you will start to think about the past. Why? Naturally, we human only treasure or missed something when it is gone. Other than thinking about the past, your feeling will be sensitive. You will also keep thinking what went wrong, what happened and etc. I called it mental torture or "digging into the snail's shell" - means no way out.

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